Stop Being the “Reliable” One (It’s Ruining Your Life)

Let’s have a real talk, Sis.

Are you the one everyone calls when their life is a dumpster fire? The one who "just handles it" at work? The sister who plans the entire family reunion while everyone else just shows up and asks where the napkins are?

Congratulations, you’ve been promoted to the Unpaid Manager of Everyone’s Mess. And honestly? It’s a scam.

The "Reliable Girl Tax" is Real

Society has spent years conditioning us to believe that being "reliable" is the ultimate compliment. But in 2026, I'm calling it what it actually is: A Boundary Leak. When you are "too reliable," people stop solving their own problems. They stop checking their own calendars. They stop putting in the work because they know you’ll swoop in with a spreadsheet and a smile to save the day.

You aren’t being a "good person"; you’re being a shock absorber. And eventually, the shocks wear out.

The Unfiltered Truth

If you’re currently feeling exhausted, resentful, and like you’re one "quick favor" away from a total meltdown, it’s because you’re paying a tax you never agreed to.

You’ve trained people how to treat you. You’ve taught them that your time is less valuable than their convenience. You’ve taught them that "No" isn't in your vocabulary.

It’s time to Audit your availability.

Let’s Stir the Pot:

I want to know the truth. Look at your life right now—your friend group, your job, your family—and tell me:

• What is one thing you are officially "UNAVAILABLE" for in 2026? * What’s the most "reliable" thing you do that you actually secretly hate?

Don't be shy. The "Good Girl" filter is off. Drop your "I’m Done" list in the comments. Let’s see who’s brave enough to stop being the fixer and start being the priority.

Stay Unfiltered,

The Consulting Chick